The Tradition of the Best Man: From Bodyguard to Best Friend
In weddings today, the best man is a familiar and often beloved figure—standing beside the groom, offering support, giving a heartfelt (or hilariously embarrassing) toast, and making sure the rings don’t get lost. But this role didn’t start as a sentimental tradition filled with speeches and bachelor parties. In fact, the origins of the best man go back centuries, and the early duties were far less ceremonial and much more… intense. Over time, the role has evolved dramatically, reflecting changing cultural values and the shift toward weddings as a celebration of love rather than a business transaction or strategic alliance.